Spencer and Heidi make news again...

Alright, so I have to comment on this "Spencer and Heidi get married." Oh Lord help us all the drama continues. I am amazed at how lame Heidi is for going back to Spencer, let alone marrying him. There could not be a worse couple and did anyone at the wedding think to speak up? I suppose they had the minister skip the section of the ceremony where they ask if anyone opposes their wedding because I am sure too many people would stand up. I just don't get it. Spencer is a liar, cheat and he treats her awful and she rewards him by becoming his wife. The only reason I think they might be good match is because they both convinced themselves that no one else will want them so they cling to each other because they are afraid of being turned down. It's sad they made it legal after having so many issues and constantly embarrassing one another in public and sacrificing friendships. I don't see their marriage lasting a long time because they have had a horrible dating relationship and I am sure that will only get worse. Girls, if a guy makes you feel bad all the time or you are worried that he is cheating then he is not the right one for you and move on fast, run if you have to. This marriage is just a sad last attempt to save a relationship that is sure to come to an even sadder end. Lame!

Get it together Girls....!

So I have been talking with my girlfriends a lot about the men in their lives and I just don't get it. I mean these girls are smart, educated and fancy but they are just so confused about what kind of man they are looking for. Then I took a few minutes to remember all the good single guys I know and I could count a few, but not many. So this leaves me thinking that 1) I am thankful I am no longer single and never have to worry about this and 2)It is flipping hard to find love. The world is so full of people trying to kill the American dream. The dream of the family, the dream of love and the dream of raising a God-fearing family. Everyone is always looking out for number one and that doesn't leave much time to find number two. I just want girls to figure out what kind of man they really want and then don't settle for anything less than that. That's it! There is so much compromise these days that I feel women get lost in deciding what they want for their life and their future. Maybe I am looking into this too harshly but I honestly think that as a whole the women of our generation are lost because the men are becoming adapted to their modern role and expect women to follow. This means the modern woman is supposed to work hard, be independent, not be too demanding and not expect men to go out-of-their-way to win the heart of a women. On top of all that she is supposed to earn her own income, please her man, clean and cook. WHEW! Just looking at that description of the modern woman makes me tired. I think the roles are so reversed that it is hard for a man to be confident in himself and a woman to feel like she even needs a man. What kind of crazy circus is the man/woman relationship these days. All I can hope for is that my girlfriends are strong women who remember what a Biblical man is made up of and settle for nothing less. I feel lucky that I found a God fearing man that knows his role and respects mine. I just don't feel hopeful about this generation of men who don't know how to show respectful love to women. All women in this world need to be on the lookout for a man who makes it easy for her to play her role. Read the Bible if you don't understand the roles because God makes it easy, which is how a godly love should be. I hope for love, I hope for beauty, I hope you dance and I wish that women would get a clue.