My Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

I just saw the movie Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2 and I loved it! My girlfriend and I went and enjoyed the amazing story about 4 girls who re-discover why their friendship is so important to them. The scenarios in the movie related directly to my life and my friendships. This past summer I have felt a gap in my friendships one that I have never experienced in previous years. It is not because the four of us don't love one another just as much as we did before, it's just change. Our lives are heading in completely different directions or geographic locations. Change is hard and you try to hold on to what you have left of each other: the memories, the laughter and the fun. Yet we are faced with the reality that we cannot go back we can only move towards the future. When I think of my three dear friends I love them each differently because they each bring out a different side of me that no one else can.

One is my drama queen. She is: my listener, the one who understands my past and my pain, the one who wants adventure, flirt, spice, Irish counterpart, better-half, daring diva, comedian at just the right moment, soft talker, skeptical, truthful songbird, the one who always understands my past and my future.

One is my baby. She is: my relationship therapist, sweet talker, cutie pie, adventure seeker, baby lover, emotional, cuddle queen, girly-girl, cowgirl, competitive, smart, lovable, irrational at times, always truthful, adaptable, spiritual, silly, understanding, kind, always blunt.

One is my dreamer. She is: my dream catcher, lovely, beautiful, sporty, youthful, busy, fierce occasionally, outdoor loving, passionate, religiously called, the one who makes me think, nerdy, quarky, loving, working, trendy, compassionate, a giver, the one who stands up for what she thinks.

The point is each brings something to my life that the other does not offer. They are totally different, which is what makes us work. Is there something like the "pants" that were bringing all the friends back together in the movie that we could grasp onto for a day to unite us all? Oh if only we didn't have to grow up and we might forever enjoy the simple pleasures of Boons, Cinnamon rolls at night and trying to sing duets. Life is tough when you figure out that time moves forward and not back. I keep on smiling because in my heart I know no matter where we go, no matter who we go with our friendships will remain forever. The friendship may not always look the same as it once did but it will always be there bringing us back together when we most need it. When I get married in December I cannot think of any other women I would rather stand by my side to align my past and walk me into my future. Everyone of us deserves a day in the sun I guess December will be mine and I will wait to see who will shine next so we can meet again. Forever I'll love you, Forever I'll care, Whether I am Near or Far I will always be there.

Fall Fashion Prediction: Clothing this fall is evolving into more structured masculine looks, for women!

Summer days are slowly fading and fall will be here soon. It’s time to go back to school in style and start tapping into the new trends of the season. This season think “Natural.” Stores will be filled with natural colors to enhance natural beauty. This fall the new “in” colors will be hues drawn from natural elements, such as leathers and woods. Golds, browns and rusts will be shown in every store this season. These colors create a great opportunity to mix and match pieces because everything will be easy to coordinate.

The main style for woman that will erupt this fall is a bohemian-whimsical nature. Everything from the popular T-shirt dresses with heavy belts and matching headbands, to sandals and flowered dresses. Vintage 60’s flare is also going to be in style this fall. In these designs, blues and deep purples can be found featured in the delicate details.

Patterns are back in style as well as the floral and plaids. Also, high-wasted pants and bubble skirts are still lingering this season. Long bulky coats in dark colors will be the highlight this fall, which range from jeans to A-line dresses.

You might notice female clothing taking on more masculine features coming this fall. Clothing will be taking a bolder, boxy shape. Much different than the rounded sleek clothing we've been used to. Grab hold of the Tux jackets and trousers made for women, which will flatter taller figures. Don’t be afraid to even mix in a tie into your outfit every now and then to give yourself that sexy tomboy look.

Of course, the classics will still remain in style: A-Line skirts or dresses, white collared shirts and the perfect pair of boot-cut jeans. If you are unsure what to wear, you cannot go wrong mixing colors such as black, white and grey.

For a little added kick one night, add a reflective piece. There will be plenty of shiny silver and gold accessories and clothing available that will make your outfit pop. Be sure not to go overboard with the metallic accessories, these pieces need to be used sparingly so you don’t end up looking like a disco ball.

If you are wondering what the perfect date outfit is this fall, the age old “little black dress” still does the trick. If you don’t own one of these dresses be sure to go grab one. Make sure you feel like a goddess when you put it on because this will help you glow on any date you are on.

No matter what style you sport when you go back to campus this Fall, always remember to dress the way that makes you feel most comfortable. Just try to avoid wearing your Pajamas and slippers to class if you are trying to catch that special someone; I guarantee he won’t be impressed. If you feel good about what you are wearing then people will know that you are a confident woman; there is nothing more stylish than wearing confidence.

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