Engaged and over age

Well this Valentine's day I got engaged to the most wonderful man the world. I know everyone says that but he really is because he is my better half. I must tell you though I have never really thought about my wedding, dreamed about it maybe, but never seriously considered what it would be like. So I am stepping out and on foreign territory where I am not sure where to start looking or what I am supposed to do. I have a little book that tells me deadlines for it all but it still is a huge task to make the one most special day of your life just be perfect in every way. No pressure! I have the dress and I am in the process of venue shopping but what now? Every minute I sit around I feel so lazy like I should be planning and not wait 9 months to get everything done. It's exciting and just tiring. If anyone has advice on what to do or sites to help manage wedding planning let me know that would help. General advice is always welcome too. Best of all I know we will be married and just blissfully in love after all this planning is over. Love him, love me.